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The TRO\/DVRO can result in a massive inequality in the high conflict divorce causing the Respondent to lose a lot. The Respondent\/Defendant must face the charge (with their attorney) and if they are NOT successful the judge could issue a 1, 2, \u00a03 or even 5 year DVRO, essentially converting\u2019 the TRO into a DVRO. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the worst thing that can happen to the defendant\/Respondent i.e you, because it will hugely impact several aspects of the divorce<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potential consequences of a DVRO being granted:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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  1. The children will be hard to see because they will be in the care of the Petitioner (the one who petitioned the DVRO). This is typically the mother.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. The children and their visitation with the Respondent (typically father) will become very strained<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. The family court judge you get assigned will always treat the petitioner better than the Respondent. The fact that a TRO has been claimed or worse still transformed into a DVRO, confirmed by an order, usually from the same family judge will create an uneven playing field for the Respondent.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. The court becomes very biased in its decisions, towards the \u2018victim\u2019 who initiated the DVRO<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Costs<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Brace yourself for a $10-15k retainer and costs of $500-700 per hour. (2020-2023 rates)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    This will be cheap compared to the consequences of a DVRO being granted.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    The TRO\/DVRO can result in a massive inequality in the high conflict divorce causing the Respondent to lose a lot.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0},"categories":[30],"tags":[40,39,33,34],"yoast_head":"\nWhy is a TRO or DVRO so bad? - SFBayAreaDivorce.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Potential consequences of a DVRO being granted can be disastrous for the Respondent's high conflict divorce results\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sfbayareadivorce.com\/?p=526\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Why is a TRO or DVRO so bad? 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